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The Fighter's Mindset: How Combat Sports Mental Training Creates High Performance in Business and Life
What does it take to step into a ring knowing someone is trying to knock you out? More importantly, what mental frameworks allow fighters to perform at their peak under such extreme pressure—and how can these same frameworks help entrepreneurs and business leaders? In my recent podcast conversation with Shaun Shubert, retired professional fighter and gym owner, we explored the powerful mental strategies that drive success in both combat sports and business.
After 40 professional fights and building a successful martial arts gym, Shaun has transitioned from fighter to coach and is now developing a mental fight camp program to help athletes master the psychological aspects of combat sports. His journey from troubled youth to respected coach offers valuable insights on mental toughness, discipline, and focus that apply far beyond the ring.
Let's explore the key mental frameworks Sean uses to develop high-performers and how these same principles can transform your approach to business challenges and personal growth.
Finding Balance: The Physical and Mental Components of High Performance
For Shaun, high performance isn't just about physical capability—it's about balancing physical training with mental preparation:
"It's a balance between your physical and your mental. There has to be this kind of scale where you are doing what is physically required of you, but also you need to have a good balance of how to scale that with the mental kind of exercises as well."
This balance became evident in Shaun's pre-interview routine. Even before our podcast conversation, he prepared mentally by engaging in physical activity:
"Even before this podcast, I posted a couple of things. I ripped the bag, did a couple of warm-up things. I'm ripping kettlebells and I'm getting a sweat on listening to my music, my camp playlist. I'm getting in the head space of like, all right, dude, let's go. Let's go perform."
This practice of physical preparation for mental performance isn't unique to fighting. Many high-achievers use physical activity as a tool to prime their mental state before important meetings, presentations, or creative work.
The Three Activity Framework
Shaun teaches his students a simple but powerful three-activity framework for developing any skill:
- Experience: Doing the actual activity you want to improve (sparring, in fighting)
- Practice: Focusing on improving specific aspects of your performance
- Training: Structured drills that help with timing, distance, and technique
"You do the activity that you want to get better at. In our industry, it's obviously the fighting. We spar, we have controlled oppositional drills and elements that we do. And then we move into practice, which is essentially gaining the efficiency of the skill that you're looking for."
This framework, when applied consistently, leads to integrated skill development where techniques become second nature. For business professionals, this might translate to:
- Experience: Actual client interactions or project execution
- Practice: Focused improvement on specific aspects of your performance
- Training: Structured learning through courses, workshops, or mentorship
The Evolution of a Fighter's Mindset: From Dark Energy to Positive Purpose
One of the most striking aspects of Sean's journey is how his motivation transformed over time. He began with what he calls a "chip on his shoulder"—fighting from a place of anger and the need to prove himself:
"I was just a real angry kid. It shifted from—nobody wants to hang out with this guy that's just angry all the time. Like nobody wants to be around that guy, and nobody wants to date that guy."
This anger served as fuel in his early career but wasn't sustainable for long-term success. As he evolved, his motivation shifted from personal vengeance to helping others:
"I fought on the UFC's fight pass because I had passion and drive to fight. I fought at the House of Blues in Boston on the biggest promotion for Muay Thai because I had passion. I took the time to go away from my business and bring myself to train in Thailand for six weeks."
The turning point came when he began coaching others:
"I took another kid there from zero to hero. It was his first pro fight. We got him to the biggest stadium in the world for Muay Thai. He fought on extremely reputable fight promotion... and he beat the bag out of this kid and dropped him with elbows in the second round, did everything perfect."
Shaun's experience mirrors what many entrepreneurs discover: initial motivation may come from a place of proving others wrong or escaping difficult circumstances, but lasting success requires finding purpose in serving others.
The Stages of Motivational Evolution
Based on Shaun's experience, we can identify a progression that many high-performers follow:
- Survival motivation: Driven by immediate needs or escaping negative situations
- Achievement motivation: Focused on personal accomplishment and recognition
- Legacy motivation: Centered on helping others and creating lasting impact
This evolution isn't just important for personal fulfillment—it's critical for sustainability. The "dark energy" of anger or resentment can only power performance for so long before it becomes destructive.
The Tactical Approach to Mental Performance
Perhaps the most applicable aspect of Sean's methodology is his tactical approach to mental training. Rather than focusing solely on techniques, he builds mental frameworks that connect core values to daily actions:
"When I teach fighting with tactics, because it's tactically driven, you're fighting, you're doing all of the skills and drills with your intentions. Your tactics are your intentions. Your strategies are what you are more personally connected to. They're the closest thing to your core values."
This approach creates a chain that connects your deepest values to your moment-by-moment decisions:
Core Values → Strategy → Tactics → Techniques
Shaun elaborates:
"Layer by layer from core values out to strategy, out to tactics. Now you start having the technical things that happen because of which area you're in. And typically which area you're operating in are derived from your core values."
This framework provides clarity in the chaos of both fighting and business. By understanding the connection between your values and your actions, you can make split-second decisions that align with your long-term vision.
Building a Mental Performance Toolkit
Beyond this framework, Sean's mental fight camp integrates several practical tools:
- Sports psychology techniques: Sean worked with sports psychologists and even underwent hypnosis to overcome mental blocks
- Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP): Using language patterns to reprogram mental responses
- Deliberate practice within context: Training in conditions that match the real-world application
- Understanding biological responses: Learning to recognize and work with natural stress responses instead of fighting them
"There are different biological mechanisms that happen in you. There are natural chemicals that your body produces. There's way more to the puzzle than people see at surface level. They call nerves and butterflies, all these different things that are basically just fillers for all these words and feelings that they have maybe no idea what they're feeling."
Creating a System for Consistent Growth
Throughout his career, Sean has developed a systematic approach to bringing students from beginners to high-performers. His gym operates with clear progression stages that help people advance at their own pace:
- Core Skills Level: Building fundamentals over 90 days
- General Population: Intermediate training with varied tactical details
- Apprentice Group: Advanced students who help teach and represent the gym
This structured approach ensures that everyone can find their appropriate challenge level, neither becoming overwhelmed nor remaining unchallenged:
"There's that place where people can go and there's no test. There's no force you out of it. There's just levels that you can grow into or that you can stay at and just operate and love the activity."
For business leaders, this model suggests the importance of creating clear developmental pathways for team members, with appropriate challenges at each stage.
Conclusion: Applying the Fighter's Mindset Beyond the Ring
Sean's journey from troubled youth to successful coach demonstrates how combat sports principles can transform both performance and character. The tactical approach to mental training, the evolution from dark motivation to positive purpose, and the systematic development of skills all offer powerful frameworks for anyone seeking to perform at their best.
Whether you're building a business, leading a team, or pursuing personal growth, these principles can help you develop the mental toughness and clarity needed to overcome challenges:
- Balance physical and mental preparation for optimal performance
- Integrate experience, practice, and training in your development process
- Evolve your motivation from personal achievement to positive impact
- Connect your daily tactics to your core values for consistent decision-making
- Create structured growth pathways that challenge without overwhelming
As Shaun puts it, the journey is about "finding what people are naturally good at" while creating bridges for them to develop in areas where they're less naturally gifted. This balanced approach to development—honoring natural strengths while systematically addressing weaknesses—is what separates sustainable high performance from short-term success.
Ready to bring the fighter's mindset to your business or personal development? Connect with Shaun Schubert on Instagram for his blueprint on mental performance and watch for his upcoming book and mental fight camp program. Share your experiences with mental performance techniques in the comments below, and let us know how you're applying these principles in your own journey.
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